Or perhaps it just me getting older, really getting my foot in to the "stressful adult life". It can be small comments about, "i dont have time to do this and that" " im so stressed today", today ths happend and it got me so annoyed" and the lis goes on.
Could the reason be because these persons are stressed and dissatisfyed and uncomftible about the way life is heading or going?
But how do you become satisfyed and comfortable about your life, and how do you stress less?
Time after time have i talked about meditation here but i still think far too few people take time to sit down and think about their life, their thoughts and feelings. To sit down, relax and contemplate only have to take 10 min of from your day. And those 10 min can really be life changing!
If you decide to sit down and meditate, (Or just think, contemplate) these are some good subjects and questions to ask yourself:
- What have you done good today?
- What would you have liked to change today and why?
- How would you change it?
- What gave you joy today?
- What did you learn today?
- What would you like to do today?
- What are important for you tofay, tomorrown, in one ,week, in one month, in one year, in one year?
- Why would you like to do those things?
- What do you value? Whats important for you? Why is those things importan?
When you find answers to these questions you also know what brings you joy in life and what long and short time goals that are important for you and for what reasons. By having these in mind, knowing that everyday you have done your best gives you a feeling of satisfaction an helps you find the good in things. In the end it's all about acceptance. Accepting the now and learn from that moment everything that there is there to learn.
For example
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If you want to succeed in you work and doing your work well gives you joy it's perhaps necessary or even good to work long working hours.
Or if you love traveling and need to work a little bit extra to be able to travel, perhaps it's worth it?perhaps the extra work is a good thing? Perhaps you even could be thankful for even having a work to go to so that you are able to do nice things?
Or if you get a feeling of joy being with a partner it's perhaps only good that he or she messes up the kitchen every now and then. Because the mess is really quite a small thing compared to the feeling of joy he or she brings you.
Or school is stressful and it feels like a lot of musts, but perhaps you find yourself thankful for having the opportunity to go to school, for being able to learn something new, something that can help you later in life. Perhaps that knowledge even can get you to that dream job of yours? Or then you just become slightly wiser. Because in the end there's no bad knowledge, right?


